{"id":3146,"date":"2013-04-02T09:37:35","date_gmt":"2013-04-02T09:37:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/theothersideofeverything.com\/flip\/?p=3146"},"modified":"2013-04-02T09:37:35","modified_gmt":"2013-04-02T09:37:35","slug":"cheating","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/theothersideofeverything.com\/flip\/2013\/04\/cheating\/","title":{"rendered":"Cheating"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p>Is it cheating if you do it because you suspect that they are cheating? (ok, I got the answer as soon as I saw that written down &#8230;)\n<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/theothersideofeverything.com\/flip\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/CAUTION-cone-sm.jpg\" alt=\"caution\" title=\"CAUTION-cone-sm\" width=\"140\" height=\"240\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-3147\" \/>I won&#8217;t reveal her name. She posted it on a popular, free social network.<\/p>\n<p>I replied:<\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s look at that word &#8220;cheating&#8221;. It implies love is a game, or perhaps a bargain. Is that the concept you want to live by? Maybe use a different word or phrase. Like straying. Or, seeking additional sexual partners. Or, shagging around. All of these have very different shades of filthy bastard.<\/p>\n<p>She asked me if I was a sociopath. I said no, I was a sensitive, dark soul. She said, no you&#8217;re not. I ended the friendship immediately.<\/p>\n<p>The moral of the story:<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t pour your heart out on Facebook! They will just advertise <a href=\"https:\/\/www.google.co.uk\/search?q=%22mops+and+defibrillators%22\" target=\"_blank\">mops and defibrillators<\/a> at you.<br \/>\n<BR><br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/theothersideofeverything.com\/flip\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/defebrillator.jpg\" alt=\"defibrillator\" title=\"defibrillator\" width=\"350\" height=\"350\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-3148\" srcset=\"https:\/\/theothersideofeverything.com\/flip\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/defebrillator.jpg 350w, https:\/\/theothersideofeverything.com\/flip\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/defebrillator-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/theothersideofeverything.com\/flip\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/defebrillator-300x300.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 350px) 100vw, 350px\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Is it cheating if you do it because you suspect that they are cheating? (ok, I got the answer as soon as I saw that written down &#8230;) I won&#8217;t reveal her name. She posted it on a popular, free social network. I replied: Let&#8217;s look at that word &#8220;cheating&#8221;. It implies love is a [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":126,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[276],"tags":[764,769,765,767,36,770,768,766],"class_list":["post-3146","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-flip-side","tag-cheating","tag-defibrillator","tag-hate","tag-infidelity","tag-love","tag-mop","tag-overshare","tag-straying"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/theothersideofeverything.com\/flip\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3146","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/theothersideofeverything.com\/flip\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/theothersideofeverything.com\/flip\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/theothersideofeverything.com\/flip\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/126"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/theothersideofeverything.com\/flip\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3146"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/theothersideofeverything.com\/flip\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3146\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3155,"href":"https:\/\/theothersideofeverything.com\/flip\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3146\/revisions\/3155"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/theothersideofeverything.com\/flip\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3146"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/theothersideofeverything.com\/flip\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3146"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/theothersideofeverything.com\/flip\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3146"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}