I remember that you are a passionate, intense Scorpio. Also modest, actually.

Avoid absolutism therefore.

Sounds like you need hugs and kisses and love declarations right now. Why should you not have them?

Friends: I don’t have a problem with that. Friendships move through phases. Why not physical/emotional intimacy?

You are allowed to find out.

Should you initiate something romantic/sexual with THIS ONE?

It depends on whether you think he is “the one”. Is it immoral or wrong to enter a relationship knowing it may not be forever? No, but just don’t kid anyone. If you know that he probably isn’t “the one” but you still think him deserving of your love and attention, and fancy his, what is wrong with that? Just don’t project and make out he is who he isn’t, and you may not then be disappointed when the love affair runs it’s course. But you probably will be, in which case, accept it.

And does that mean you shouldn’t get involved? Not at all. Just be careful. I am glad that I had relationships that were serious that were not for life, they taught me an awful lot.

OK here’s the anti-advice.

I visited my (male) friend in intensive care after he fell for a (female) friend, and it didn’t work out, and then smashed himself up in his car, getting away from it all too fast in the rain at night. The tubes emerging from his punctured lung I shall not forget.

But the woman could have come from anywhere in his life… I think it was more about HIS NEED to love and be loved. He would have loved a paint can if nothing else was around.

Look after yourself, I’ve missed you!